So, I’ve been slacking on the blog post… Sorry ya’ll, its
been a heck of a month!! But I’m back and have some interesting things to
share.
First of all, I meet a super cool Brazilian guy who is also
here with nothing todo. By that I mean we are both not working for money or volunteering for a project, nor are we associated with any ngo’s or religious
institutions. We are just simply here in Bissau.
His name is
Bruno and he lives next to the Port of Bissau on top of a bar owned by 2 Portuguese
men named Truvon and Emilio. They created a small café/bar that seem to be the
haven for all Portuguese men here in Bissau (I rarely see women walk in). The
Bar is in Bissau Velho (Old Bissau) which is next to the port of Bissau. This neighborhood, and thus the bar as well, has a very Portuguese feel because it
was built 'during the time of the Portugues', as people here like to say. It is just about the only place in
the country that has 2 story mixed use (residential/business) buildings.
At the bar they serve
beers, soda, Portuguese pastries and soup. They have a flat screen TV that’s
always playing a soccer game. It’s a pretty chill spot. I stop by every once
and a while and hang out with what averages out to be 4 or 5 Portuguese guys and
my Brazilian friend.
Most of my
time here I have been with Guineans and have been getting more of the Guinean
perspective on life. Hanging out at the bar has been a glimpse into the mind of
the Portuguese businessman and life style.
Lets start with business. The main
owner, Truvon, is sick and tired of Bissau. It’s hard here for some foreign
businessmen if you don’t have the right connections. Doing anything in this country is difficult
simply because of the inefficiency and disorganization. But its also difficult
because of the Guinean working mentality,
which is very laid back. It's hard to get things done when everyone has a 'lets do it tomorrow attitude'. I would get angry in the beginning when people would make comments of that nature. But the longer I’m here the more I'm learning and the more
I understand how frustrating it is to live with this work environment. Anywho, essentially Truvon wants to close up shop, move to Brazil, open a café and retire.
In terms of
personal life, they are almost all
single (because no one is waiting for them back in Portugal) and between the
age of 45 and 65. But they have been quick to adapt to Guinean culture in that
many of these guys have young girlfriends (20-27 year old). I’ve seen Guniean
women throw themselves at them and I’ve seen them walk up stairs to their room
with prostitutes. It’s a mixed bag when it comes to relationships for them.
Anywho, we
sit and chat and I get to hear stories about their lives and we talk about
everything under the sun. There’s
another Portuguese bar down the street from this one where they all hang out
late at night. Just picture this: An older Portuguese man, cigarette in one hand
and glass of wine in the other, talking about his life and experiences in
Africa. Sometimes its funny stories,
sometimes its serious or life threatening stories. But its almost always
politically INcorrect.
I’ve gotten
to be pretty good friends with these guys and it’s always priceless when I'm
walking around town with my step dad and we run into them. He gives me the “
why in the heck do you know this guy??” face. hahaha
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